🚩 Social Awareness · 4 Behavioral Zones
Your friends are seeing red flags
you don't even know
you're sending.
Most red flags aren't dramatic. They're habits. Patterns. The way you respond when you're stressed, the things you say when you're late, the signals you broadcast without realizing they're broadcast. Find out what signals you're actually giving off.
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🚩 4 behavioral zones scored
📊 0–100 Green Flag Score
🔒 No account required
📤 Shareable challenge card
Real red flags people discovered about themselves
These are behavioral patterns the decoder identifies. Most people recognize at least two of these in themselves — and don't realize others notice them too.
🚩 Dating Context
"You respond to texts 3 days late but post on social media the same day. People read this as dismissal regardless of your actual reason."
🚩 Red Flag
⚠️ Work Context
"You agree to deadlines you know are unrealistic and then apologize instead of flagging the problem earlier. Teams stop trusting your estimates."
⚠️ Yellow Flag
🚩 Friendship Context
"You only reach out when you need something. Friends notice the pattern long before you do — and quietly start declining invitations."
🚩 Red Flag
⚠️ Dating Context
"You bring up your ex more than three times before the fourth date. The other person starts calculating their exit strategy."
⚠️ Yellow Flag
🚩 Self-Awareness
"When criticized, your first move is to explain why you were right. Feedback lands as attack. This pattern compounds every other issue."
🚩 Red Flag
⚠️ Work Context
"You speak confidently about things you're actually uncertain about. Colleagues start double-checking your claims — which they don't do for other people."
⚠️ Yellow Flag
The 4 zones your behavior gets scored across
Your Green Flag Score isn't one number — it's four sub-scores combined. Each zone reveals a different slice of how others actually experience you.
Dating
Attachment patterns, communication timing, how you handle uncertainty and conflict in early stages of connection.
Your score reveals here
Work
Reliability signals, how you handle accountability, the gap between what you say and what you deliver under pressure.
Your score reveals here
Friendship
Reciprocity, availability, whether you show up for people in ways that match how they show up for you.
Your score reveals here
Self-Awareness
Your blind spot index — how well your self-perception matches the signals you actually broadcast in every context above.
Your score reveals here
What your Green Flag Score actually tells you
The score isn't about being a good or bad person. It's about whether the signals you're sending match the person you think you are.
0 – 40
🚨 Red Alert Zone
Your behavioral signals are actively working against you across multiple zones. People around you are picking up on patterns you haven't noticed yet. This score is rare to get without a significant blind spot.
40 – 70
⚠️ Mixed Signals Zone
Strong in some zones, inconsistent in others. Most people land here. The mix of green and yellow flags means people who know you well trust you — but first impressions are unpredictable.
70 – 100
✅ Green Zone
Your signals are consistent and trustworthy across zones. People feel comfortable around you quickly. This doesn't mean perfect — it means your self-awareness matches your actual impact.
Your results stay exactly where they belong
This tool was built deliberately to require no server, no account, and no personal data collection.
Results computed on your device — nothing is sent anywhere
No account required — anonymous by design
Score optionally saved to local browser storage only
No behavioral data stored, sold, or processed externally
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What's your flag score?
Answer honestly across 4 zones. Get a 0–100 score, a breakdown of where your flags are, and a shareable card to send to people who know you. The hardest part is seeing the number. The second hardest part is sharing it.
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Quick questions
🤔 Is this based on actual psychology or is it entertainment?
The behavioral categories are grounded in observable social science patterns — attachment theory, attribution bias, and interpersonal signaling research. It's not a clinical diagnostic tool. It's a structured self-reflection exercise designed to surface patterns you may not have examined consciously. Most people find the results uncomfortably accurate.
📤 Can I challenge a friend to take it and compare scores?
Yes. After you get your result, you'll see a shareable challenge link that carries your score. Your friend opens it, sees your score, takes the test, and finds out if they score higher or lower. The URL carries the full chain — no backend needed.
🔒 Does it store my answers anywhere?
No. The tool runs entirely in your browser. Nothing is sent to a server. Your answers and score are optionally saved to your device's local storage so you can return to them — but they never leave your device. No account, no email, no tracking.